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Orphans in China will be celebrating their biggest and most important holiday, National Children's Day, on June 1, 2014. National Children's Day is considered one of the biggest celebrations in China, especially within the rural villages. The children at the Yu-Lin orphanage have lived a difficult life, so this day is a day to show them that there are people from across the world who care and love them! <br />
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Recently, on our Parenting Today's Teens radio program, my guest and good friend, Dr. Melody Rhode commented that the death of a child is such a catastrophic experience in the life of parents; it leads 90% of those marriages to fail. A shocking statistic, isn't it?<br />
In my years of working with thousands of struggling teens and their parents, I've learned that parents of troubled teens experience a similar sense of grief and loss, and also a profound sense of betrayal from their teen. Perhaps their teen has run away or otherwise has totally abandoned the family and everything they hold dear. To these parents it may seem as though a death has occurred, and as such, it similarly puts a great deal of stress on their marriage.<br />
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Grace � given at just the right moment has the power to change the direction of any struggle, and may ultimately bring it to an end. Grace can bring healing, restoration, and redirect your teen's path.<br />
A biblical definition of grace is this:<i> God's undeserved favor and forgiveness when we've chosen the unforgivable.</i> In human terms, grace is an act of kindness, love, and forgiveness in the face of bad behavior or poor choices. For your teen, it can even extend to outright rebellion and rotten attitudes.<br />
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But maybe I exaggerate. Just because <i>some</i> elements of the new teen culture are alien to us, doesn't mean our kids are from another dimension (even though it can seem that way). Let's face it; the world that our sons and daughters are growing up in is far different than the one in which we were raised. When we wrote a school paper, we had to travel to a place called "the library." Students now have the all the information they need at their fingertips, just by visiting Google. Our TVs carried three stations. Today, teens have access to a thousand different programs, not only on TV, but also on their computers and phones. I grew up respecting coaches, police, clergy, and those in authority. Our teens live in a culture where the flaws and mistakes of those in charge have left them questioning their leaders.<br />
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Though we may say we don't demand perfection, don't rule with an iron fist, and that we won't judge our kids, our actions might just be saying otherwise. If we run up against consistent patterns of disregard and disobedience from our teens, perhaps it's time to ask ourselves a tough question: <i>Am I doing something that pushes my kids further away from me?</i><br />
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As parents, we often put a lot of blame on ourselves for what we cannot offer our kids. When Christmas or birthdays roll around, we feel guilty when we can't afford the latest and greatest iPads, video games, designer shoes, or state-of-the-art cell phones. Perhaps we feel embarrassed that, when it comes to housework, we're barely keeping our head above water, and it's all we can do to start the laundry, run the dishwasher, and feed the dog. And if that's not bad enough, we have the tendency to compare ourselves to what other moms and dads can offer their teens. Instead of being able to take a family vacation to Disney World, perhaps all you can do is pack the car up for a weekend with Grandpa and Grandma in Peoria, Illinois (I love people in Peoria; this is just an example). While other teens you know are taking private ski lessons, learning Italian in Europe, or going out to a movie every weekend, you feel like you're letting your teen down because you're not able to offer the same type of experiences. So we start to believe that we don't pass muster as parents.<br />
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Don't judge; but I'm a fan of the <i>National Treasure </i>movies. Remember those films? They starred Nicholas Cage as Benjamin Gates, a historian and modern fortune hunter who believed that America's national monuments and historical artifacts contained a secret treasure map from the founding fathers. While other researchers and academics laughed at his conspiracy theories, Benjamin Gates eventually proved that underneath the common symbols and landmarks we see in America was a trail of messages pointing to new discoveries.<br />
What does the <i>National Treasure </i>have to do with parenting teens? Just this: Our child's inappropriate behaviors, whether it's blatant disrespect, substance abuse, continuous lying, sexual activity, stealing, out-of-control anger, or spiraling depression, are visible landmarks that stick out in our teen's life. But if we take the time to look underneath these monuments, we will find the true message our teens are trying to convey, but cannot find the words to do so.<br />
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For Lucas, it started in high school. "<i>I guess I have a face and personality that invites bullies</i>," he told me. Kids in class would ridicule Lucas' clothes, mock his behavior, laugh at where he came from, and deride him constantly. But in teen culture, you can't show weakness. Teens know that if you let on to bullies that they're affecting you, you're giving them an open invitation to continue the abuse. So Lucas put on his impervious face each day, and endured the barrage of mistreatment at school. But that kind of ill-treatment wears you down. "<i>When I would finally come home</i>," explained this young man, "<i>the littlest thing would set me off. I mean, my mom would ask me to take out the trash and I could feel the anger building. At first I wouldn't talk, but that made my mom mad, so eventually all this anger would just, kinda, explode. I would yell, throw things, break things. My mom didn't know what to do.</i>"<br />
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<em>If you swim with the sharks, you're bound to get bit</em>. <i>One bad apple spoils the whole bushel. Bad company corrupts good character</i>. Many parents have added these phrases to their lexicon, because they illustrate the dangers of running with the "wrong crowd". As moms and dads, we know how susceptible kids are to peer influence. You've likely spent many sleepless nights worrying about the people your child is hanging around. What are they teaching my son? What are they pressuring my daughter to do? Are these friends that will give needed support and encouragement to my teen, or are they the type of people who will bring my child down?<br />
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It's probably happened to a lot of dads. Your kid spends his mornings watching you drag yourself to the bathroom mirror, pile some shaving cream in your hand, break out your razor, and start shaving your face. Soon, your son (or maybe even daughter) decides they need to shave too. So you squirt a little cream in their hands, supply them a with tongue depressor, and let them "shave." As you both lean into the vanity mirror, it's hard not to laugh, watching your five-year-old seriously attack the non-existent stubble on his face.<br />
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<strong>BY SHERRY BOSCHERT</strong><br />
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SAN FRANCISCO - The color of a bruise indicates its age. You'll almost always see bruising when a child has a fracture. Sexual abuse leaves behind physical exam findings.<br />
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These are all myths that can get in the way of physicians recognizing abuse of an infant or child. Physicians are required by law to report all suspicions of nonaccidental trauma, a catch-all term for child abuse, shaken baby syndrome, and battered-child syndrome.<br />
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Physicians can meet that obligation by ignoring these myths, recognizing red flags for nonaccidental trauma, and being familiar with signs of accidental trauma or medical conditions that can mimic the physical findings of nonaccidental trauma, Dr. Maureen D. McCollough said at the Scientific Assembly of the American College of Emergency Physicians.<br />
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As a child moves from his elementary years into early adolescence, it's essential that the style of communicating with your child change with them. They are moving from "concrete" thinking to "abstract" thought. What was "non-hormonal" now becomes laced with hormones. Total dependence moves closer to independence. While they have always wanted to listen, now they want to express.</div>
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It's important for parents to transition <i style="background-color: transparent; border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">with</i> their child, to change their style of communication rather than not talking at all. Sadly, if this transition is not accomplished, then the next time that communication, or lack thereof, shows itself, is when your child begins to struggle or have difficulties, and desperately needs someone to talk to.</div>
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiOaNSUkznpkFrKA-KYphiglWXl548UPKj6hUkevgg4K1gVdGX-sRGZWwsuFQsW6dsYZodGaFGL-bzofZRDpvlEd4EuyS9e8NAIO-sQVXbov8LHJWuzV9IQD7bH3-NmZ-X4K1E4kOX-7Fea/s1600/FamilyCollisionsm.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiOaNSUkznpkFrKA-KYphiglWXl548UPKj6hUkevgg4K1gVdGX-sRGZWwsuFQsW6dsYZodGaFGL-bzofZRDpvlEd4EuyS9e8NAIO-sQVXbov8LHJWuzV9IQD7bH3-NmZ-X4K1E4kOX-7Fea/s1600/FamilyCollisionsm.jpg" /></a><span style="background-color: #fefef9; color: #666666; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 14px;"><span style="font-size: x-small;">Parenting teens is hard enough when parents agree on how a child should be parented; and even tougher when parenting styles collide. And the one place that parents should be especially concerned about not allowing confusion is in their own home. Confusion flourishes and relationships flounder when parents can't get their parenting styles to compliment one another, during a time when a teen needs the cohesive and focused team approach by Mom and Dad, whether living in the same house or not.</span></span></div>
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Prevent child abuse &; Family Violencehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12025167496901009657noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6556323491338514832.post-82853967735856942682013-09-24T18:40:00.002-07:002013-09-24T18:42:00.642-07:00Dealing with Teen Anger<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhvpnn8L56HOrwYoT90gfvjDqamZXV6oYL1ITAlSHLrj70zbWb8g3vtDoBU4Wof9hp6_W5bHL1VydcPgjQNcUObPegTeNwHuYzKzHmBykYvZxNnN47Vep3-Xsk6htbpX5WSnzBYhB_9IEou/s1600/istock_000008463493xsmall-121x150.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhvpnn8L56HOrwYoT90gfvjDqamZXV6oYL1ITAlSHLrj70zbWb8g3vtDoBU4Wof9hp6_W5bHL1VydcPgjQNcUObPegTeNwHuYzKzHmBykYvZxNnN47Vep3-Xsk6htbpX5WSnzBYhB_9IEou/s1600/istock_000008463493xsmall-121x150.jpg" /></a><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">Dealing with your Teen's Anger can be over whelming. Here is an article that may help guide you to some happier resolutions between you and your teen.</span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">Anger in your teenager can take on many faces. It can be a seething anger kept quietly be</span><span class="text_exposed_show" style="background-color: white; color: #333333; display: inline; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 18px;">low the surface, or a tidal wave unleashed on everyone around them. Anger can manifest itself in a covert refusal to comply with your household rules or wishes, or it can lead your teenager to outwardly undermine their own future or even strike out in violence.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: #fefef9; color: #666666; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 14px;">Mom and Dad, don't look now, but there could be a monster in your home. This beast's objective is to infiltrate your life, gain control, and rule your family with sarcasm and an iron fist. Now, you may not recognize this monster at first. That's because this fiendish terror disguises itself, using </span><i style="background-color: #fefef9; border: 0px; color: #666666; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 14px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">your </i><span style="background-color: #fefef9; color: #666666; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 14px;">teen as its innocent host. The scientific name of this monster is</span><i style="background-color: #fefef9; border: 0px; color: #666666; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 14px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">Bratticus Narcissitcus</i><span style="background-color: #fefef9; color: #666666; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 14px;">; but in the vernacular, it's simply called, "</span><i style="background-color: #fefef9; border: 0px; color: #666666; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 14px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">a selfish brat</i><span style="background-color: #fefef9; color: #666666; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 14px;">."</span><i style="background-color: #fefef9; border: 0px; color: #666666; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 14px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"> </i><span style="background-color: #fefef9; color: #666666; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 14px;">And it can wreak untold damage on your home and your family.</span><br />
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Plan to attend the Tough Guys & Drama Queens seminar, led by teen expert, Mark Gregston. The event will be held on Sunday afternoon, October 6th from 3:30 to 6:30 at Woodcreek Church, located at 3400 E. Renner Road, in Richardson, Texas.</div>
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Mark will share his insights and observations gathered from over 38 years of experience in dealing with teens and parents. His national radio program, Parenting Today's Teens, is heard on over 1,500 radio outlets. His wit, humor, and biblical approach to helping parents insure that his seminars are full of laughter and practical applications that appeal to all audiences.</div>
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<span style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px;">Read more at </span><a class="twitter-timeline-link" href="http://www.childabuse.com/authors/marks_corner/tough-guys_drama-queens.html" style="background-color: white; font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px; text-decoration: none !important;" target="_blank">http://www.childabuse.com/authors/marks_corner/tough-guys_drama-queens.html</a>Prevent child abuse &; Family Violencehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12025167496901009657noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6556323491338514832.post-48076060643297754412013-09-16T18:30:00.002-07:002013-09-16T18:30:18.269-07:00How far is to far to go?<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="background-color: #fefef9; color: #666666; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 14px;">How far is too far when helping a still traumatized teen child abuse survivor? How far is too far in reaching out to catch a young man aging out of foster care that is not prepared to care for himself? We have heard the cliche statements like "Pay it Forward" and, "What Would Jesus Do?" Constant trauma from severe abuse was never addressed and they are years behind in school. We ask, how does an 18 year old get a job and begin caring for themselves alone under such emotional strain? They don't, not without direct long term help.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: #fefef9; color: #666666; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: x-small; line-height: 14px;">Child marriage, defined as a formal marriage or informal union before age 18. </span><span style="background-color: #fefef9; color: #666666; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: x-small; line-height: 14px;">Child marriage affects both girls and boys, girls are disproportionately the most affected; child marriages are occuring both</span><span style="background-color: #fefef9; color: #666666; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: x-small; line-height: 14px;"> </span><span style="background-color: #fefef9; color: #666666; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: x-small; line-height: 14px;">In low- and middle-income countries,pregnancy and childbirth complications are the leading cause of death for girls ages 15 to 19. </span><span style="background-color: #fefef9; color: #666666; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: x-small; line-height: 14px;">Girls who marry early also rarely finish school, often setting them back for life.</span><span style="background-color: #fefef9; color: #666666; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: x-small; line-height: 14px;"> </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: #fefef9; color: #666666; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; line-height: 14px;">From the moment the doctor places that sweet, newborn baby in our arms, we parents start to worry. The dangers we never considered before starting a family now become monumental. So we spend a weekend baby-proofing the house with complex locks and latches. When our kid gets the sniffles, we assume it is some rare Zebra Flu, and rush them to the doctor. When they go skateboarding, we fit them with pads and helmets, and cover them in bubble-wrap, just in case. And when our kids rush into the door waving that driver's license, all moms and dads can think about are the many ways their precious kid can be injured inside that two-ton metal death trap we call "cars." Let's not sugarcoat it-parents worry about their kids!</span><br />
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